B.G.R

When you don't have it, you frust and envy those couple.
When you have it, you frust and envy those single people.
When you'r too far to have it, you build your own imagination bridge.
When you'r near to get it, you feel like its a piece of cake.

Bo Sou gor said it is a HUGE decision to decide whether to marry or not and with whom to marry with. Well you see, married can be a blessing for your entire life and it can also be a curse that haunt you eternally. That is why Christian always believe that God will provide the right couple for us.

However, we should not misunderstand that He will actually choose the life partner for you. It is His job to place the right person around you, but it is your job to choose the correct partner. I lactually like this statement. Yea...God never decides anything for us. He shows us the correct way and it is up to us to follow or not to. :)

Talking about the 3 myths of love relationship...i guess somehow i ter-kena one of them. Lolx
1) True love can conquer everything.
The 有情喝水饱 doesn't work in reality. Love is not blindness, it is sharing and caring.
If a guy hits you with the chair, should you be thankful that he did not use the iron? If you do, then you'r already in the very first myth.

2) Love at first side is true love.
Many people believes at this, but it is a big NO NO!!! Not to say that love at first side is 100% a wrong thing, but you should always remember that true love needs time to foster. When you get to know that person more, you'll discover lots of hidden identity that you never aspect,
*This is why i never want to know him more personally* :p

3)Perfect partner can fufill all your needs wholly
Whot?!!!! No one is 100% perfect in the whole universe okay!!! Even my Hong gor also has his own dark side. You have to pay a price and earn for it, its a sharing process. Never never think that love is a business. Marketing and management doesn't work this way okay~Don't compete with each other about having a partner...you will die hard hard i tell you.

Wei Yi jie also further explains the 8 types of non-productive love relationship.
1)You care more about your partner, more than he or she does
2) You love your partner's potential
3)You want to help your partner
4) Your partner is your worhip idol
5)You are only attracted to his/her phsical appearance
6)Meet with each other day and night in a short term (sparks will come out if you work with someone on a continuous project) *danger*
7)Choose your partner out of rebellion/revenge/for a purpose
8)Your partner is not single/UNAVAILABLE (then you will be the 3rd person)

Life is never easy, yet love is more complicated and way more hard. Its a roller-coaster. ^^ Think twice before you do anything that will make yourself regret for the rest of your life. Remember...always examine your heart. Never Chong Dong~~!!!!!